About

I’ve grown really tired of women, and girls (if you’re under 23, you’re a ‘girl’ in my world), bitching that they can’t “keep a man” or they don’t know how to “get a man.”  I’m here to tell you that no matter how many sexual positions you are willing to try, and lie about your level of enjoyment of said position…no matter how many cute little lingerie outfits you have…no matter how many sporting events, car shows, or headbanging concerts you are willing to go to…no matter how many of his smelly, rude, ugly, stoner, slacker friends you are willing to put up with…if you can’t cook him even a simple meal you’ll never get your man.

Really, it’s almost that simple.  I’m not too sure when this whole attitude came into being that you don’t have to be able to cook (at all), but I see how food companies and grocery stores play into this on a daily basis.

I’ve put this site together to help you get and or keep that man you’re interested in.  I can tell you, from my own personal experience, that being able to cook, even a little bit, will get you pretty far.  And it’s not about cooking a gourmet dinner like you’d get at The French Laundry or El Bulli.  It’s about cooking simple things like spaghetti and meat sauce, a roasted chicken, macaroni and cheese, or a chocolate cake.  You don’t have to have skills like a gourmet chef to do this either.  If you can chew gum and walk at the same time, you can cook.

BTW…

I love to cook, and eat, and I DO believe that the best way to man’s heart is still through his stomach.  Of course, by “man” I am referring to both men and women.  Because who doesn’t like to eat and be cooked for?

I’ve added this bit about the site because when I started, it was because my single girlfriends were always bitching to me about “finding the one,” or trying to stand out from the crowd while not looking like hooker.  But since starting the site I have heard from many of my single male friends and new readers, who are men, about how to seduce the woman they are interested.

Please let me know how these, or other recipes, have worked for you when trying to impress/seduce/land that special someone.

Pamela and Craig, Beijing 2010