Figs, figs the magical fruit…the more you eat them the more you….yeah that little ditty doesn’t work so well with the fig reference, but figs really are quite magical.  If you’ve never eaten fresh figs, it’s a taste experience like you never expected.  They DO NOT taste like Fig Newtons.  The filling inside Newtons is fig, but they’re dried figs.  When the figs are dried, they have a different flavor from their fresh brethren.

I experienced my first fresh figs last year.  I was roaming around the farmer’s market and saw the funny looking fruits all neatly stacked in their boxes.  The grower had Mission figs (they are blackish purple color and the sweeter of the figs) and Kadota figs (which are a bright green and not as sweet).  I braved the unknown and bought a box of each.  Craig initially passed on the opportunity to try this “new” fruit, but quickly grabbed one when he heard me moaning and saw my eyes roll back.  (Okay, sometimes I can be a bit melodramatic.)  Funny thing is, he got it.  We eventually fought over the last little fig left in its box.  We were hooked and I made my first fresh fig recipe.

Fast forward a year and I’m still hooked on fresh figs.  At times, the quantity of them has gotten a bit out of hand in my house but somehow I find the strength to eat them all.  Earlier this year, I grabbed some great Mission Figs and stuffed them with goat cheese, swaddled them in prosciutto and threw them on the grill – a truly decadent appetizer which pairs wonderfully with wine.  Hmmm…is it a coincidence that according to the Roman’s, the God Bacchus introduced figs to man?  You know Bacchus – the crazy Roman party God who’s the patron deity of wine making and bacchanalia (ba-kǝ-nāl-yǝ 1. any form of drunken revelry 2. orgy).  I don’t think so.

Furthering the concept of partying and figs, or partying with figs, I made a batch of fig conserves.  Since that’s not really a common word anymore you could call it fig jam, fig preserves (although I didn’t preserve them) or a fig confit.  Any of these descriptors fit here.  I was attending a brunch and wanted to bring something that would play nicely with everything that would be there, especially the mimosa’s.  While some of the ingredients I used may sound odd, trust me when I say they all play very nicely with each other and combine to make something that is much grander than the individual parts.  I brought it with a nice wedge of brie but we smeared it on the brie as well as some yummy Madelines, fruit and of course the champagne.

Since I only made 1 batch, and it was going to be eaten the next day, I didn’t preserve it, so what I made technically can’t be called fig preserves.  But if you hit upon a motherload of figs you certainly could preserve this easy enough.  I used Adriatic figs for this (they had these for a bargain basement price because they were super ripe and wouldn’t make it past that day – Adriatics are also a less sweet fig than the mission figs) but you could use any fresh figs you like or have access too.

Relationship Advice

Speaking of Bacchanalian endeavors…there was an article in today’s Wall Street Journal (yes, I am a well read individual) called The Friendliest Young Woman in the Room.  The article talks about two former Wall Street types who started up a business of “shooter girls.”  You know what I’m talking about..those cute girls who walk around all night selling shots contained in those phallic looking test tubes (which I think is hysterically funny when you watch the guys trying to be cool with this penis looking container sticking out of their mouths as they smile  – thankfully they don’t think about it that much) for $3 – $5 dollars each that also happen to have some kind of sexual name attached to them (like buttery nipple or the blow job). Oh yeah, and the girls usually dressed very provocatively.  (Ummm…I might know about this subject since I did that for almost a year and made some killer money.  Oh, and I met my husband at that very same bar while I was working there – just don’t tell him I told you that. SHHHHHHHH!)

Now that you’ve got the back story on the article I can get into the advice part.  Today’s post is for the guys out there and it is partly from the article and partly from my own personal experience.  So while you ladies can continue reading, for the humor factor of course, you guys need to pull a chair up close to your monitor and pay attention.  No, I won’t wear my school marm outfit and slap you on the knuckles with a ruler because you’d like that too much.  This is serious business, so pay attention.  THAT CUTE SHOT GIRL IS NOT GOING TO GO HOME WITH YOU! EVER!  Just like that stripper that you were sure was soooo into you – not gonna happen.

These girls in New York bars may be a little more organized and have a list of practices that they get from their bosses, but shot girls in any bar in America already know these things.  Suddenly I feel better about being from Cleveland, as I already knew these “Shot girl Bible rules” plus a few more that I won’t divulge here unless someone wants to pay me for this unique knowledge.

Personality is key.

Physical looks alone will only get someone so far.

Be as friendly, personable, upbeat as possible.

Customers will feed off your energy.

Do not spend too much time with a patron or group of patrons.

Never give up.

Always be the friendliest girl in the room.

Here’s my advice to you guys and f’n pay attention for a change (sorry shot girls trying to make a buck nowadays – but let’s be frank here…they aren’t going to pay attention, so your income is safe.  I’m doing this as a public service because I feel like I need to do so much of that per year.)  THAT REALLY CUTE SHOT GIRL ISN’T GOING TO GO HOME WITH YOU.  Yep, she might be the only girl you talk to that night but she’s not going to go home with you, take you into the bathroom for a quickie or anything else.  She’s going to sell you 25 cents worth of booze, you’re going to pay her $3 – $5 for the (less than a) shot and then you’re going to give her a huge tip that’s commensurate with the size of her boobs, length of hair, her hotness or how nice she was to you.  And yes, you are special to her (because she’ll be able to buy her _____ from the tip you gave her so she’ll be back later to see you…because you are “so special” to her.)

To sum this all up.  Yep, she’s cute/hot.  Yep, she talked to you.  Yep, she ma de eye contact with you.  She’s not interested in you.  But you see that girl over there?  The one in the pencil skirt, glasses and high heels?   Yeah, the one that keeps glancing over at you.  Don’t let the clothes fool you.  There’s someone who wants to go home with you.  That hot shot girl is just going to tell stories about you.

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While you may not be familiar with Muesli (pronounced Muse – Lee), it’s been a popular and healthy breakfast item in Europe for well over 100 years.  Oh, maybe you’ve seen boxes of something called Mueslix on the shelves of your local grocery store.  While you might think that it’s the same thing as muesli (hey, they just added an x at the end of the word) this box of cereal, put out by a mega giant cereal company, has more in common with Frosted Flakes than muesli.

Craig and I fell in love with Muesli in, of all places, Las Vegas years ago. (What could be more important, when in Vegas, than eating a proper breakfast?)  A bowl of grains and nuts taking a bath in a splash of warm milk, grated apples, fresh strawberries and blueberries, all topped off with a drizzle of honey was enough to give me a food orgasm.  While we pined away for more of this healthy and energizing breakfast, over time we just let the thought of muesli disappear since we couldn’t find it anywhere.

When we began our semi round the world traveling, at the beginning of this year, an old friend came back into our lives – muesli.  Of course this time it wasn’t served in such an elegant manner (we were eating it in airport lounges in various cities), but it was just as good.  Each country had its own muesli recipe but they all contained a mixture of nuts, grains and dried fruits all in a serve yourself container.  You could then top it with the dairy of your choice: milk, cream or yogurt and some fresh fruit and honey.

The great thing about homemade muesli is that it has so many good qualities beyond the amazing flavors.  Because there is a  mixture of nuts, grains and dried fruit it’s a healthy breakfast that will keep you full and energized until lunch.  Homemade muesli allows you the freedom to make your own combination of ingredients.  You can even change up the mixture to match the seasons.  Muesli is much easier to make than granola too – there’s no coating and baking involved.  Just measure out the ingredients and keep them in an airtight container.

Relationship Advice

Looking for some cheap entertainment, I surfed over to Craigslist to check out the ‘tortured’ souls who take to the internet in attempts to hook up with strangers.  I don’t have any advice to offer these seemingly desperate guys.  The only thing I can say is:

You are never going to get the girl this way….

jeep girl at coffee bean – m4w (beverly hills)

this morning you were waiting for your drink when I came in. We briefly looked at each other, enough though for me to want to bite and taste you….
you were wearing heels, a skirt and a shirt that I wanted to tear apart…
you left in a jeep…

hisssssssssssssssssssssssssssss – m4w (echo)

who was that girl with the fake snake at echo last night? i have a real one at home…I wonder if you’re as dirty in real life as you were in my dream last night. I don’t think I’ll ever get to find out though.

CJ – Had a dream about you last night (Brooklyn)

I wonder if you’re as dirty in real life as you were in my dream last night. I don’t think I’ll ever get to find out though.

SEXY REDHEAD UNION SQUARE – m4w (Union Square)

YOU-BEAUTIFUL REDHEAD AT UNION SQUARE AT AROUND 5:30.WEARING PRETTY DRESS, HEELS AND A TORTOISE SHELL NECKLACE.YOUR TOE NAILS AND FINGER NAILS WERE PAINTED A SHADE OF PINK..YOU MET YOUR FREIND AND TALKED ABOUT WHERE TO GO FOR A DRINK AND FOOD.ME BLOND HAIR BLUE EYES MAROON PANTS SITTING TWO STEPS RIGHT IN FRONT OF YOU…I WAS GOING TO ASK IF YOU WOULD LIKE TO SHARE A SPONTANEOUS KISS BUT YOUR FREIND TOOK YOU AWAY…I ADORED AND WORSHIPED YOUR BEAUTY FROM BENETH YOU.CAN I BUY YOU DINNER,TEA,A DRINK?.YOUR SUCH A GODDESS. .THERE IS ABSOLUTELY NO WAY YOU WILL EVER LEAVE MY MIND…

Makes 4 Quarts

Ingredients

• 1 1/2 Cups Hot Cereal Mix (oat based)
• 3/4 Cups Sliced Raw Almonds
• 1/2 Cup Flax Seeds
• 1/2 Cup Raw Pepitas (could also use raw sunflower seeds)
• 1/2 Cup Chia Seeds
• 1 Cup Raw Pecans
• 1 Cup Unsweetened Flaked Coconut
• 1/2 Cup Chopped Dates
• 1/2 Cup Dried Unsweetened Cranberries
• 1/2 Cup Dried Apricots (chopped)
• 1 1/2 Cups Puffed Millet
• 4 Cups Whole Grain Cereal Flakes

Directions

Pour each ingredient into a 4 quart container.

Seal the lid.

Mix to combine.

Serving Suggestions:

Warm Weather: serve muesli topped with fat free plain yogurt, a drizzle of honey and fresh seasonal fruit.

Cold Weather: serve muesli with warm milk, a shredded apple and a drizzle of honey.

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